When I used to tutor, this is a question I always pondered, too, .......then I figured it out.......everyone has different abilities.
Foe instance, if you asked me to draw a picture, forget it!!! I have no talent in that direction.
Here's what I would tell you....practice!!.....most people aren't born "knowing" how to do math, anymore than they're born knowing how to play a piano!!
Coming to the forum to ask questions isn't a bad idea, either. We might not have any Sir Isaac Newtons on here (but then again, I can't be sure), but we have a lot of people who are pretty knowledgeable!!
Hang in there....."math" isn't the "only" thing in life......